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Blood Brothers in The Driftless

by Richie

A full moon rose over the Driftless hill country in southwest Wisconsin on the Fourth of July. Low fog hung in the notched valleys as twilight gave way to a starry sky. A buck deer, silhouetted on the edge of a hay field, watched as a handful of UTVs parked on a ribbon of warm asphalt running along a high ridge. A dozen people tumbled out of the vehicles, laughing and scanning the horizon. The sweeping panorama was dotted with sprays of fireworks from a dozen distant towns. Tim stood among a clan of new-found family and knew this is why we came.

 

 

Brothers Doug & Tim

It’s pretty amazing to be fifty-something years old and meet your brother for the first time! Through the miracle of modern science these things are possible now.

Tim was adopted as a wee infant into a wonderful family in Kentucky and grew up happily on the farm where we now make our home. When DNA test kits became available he decided to give it go, curious about his biological lineage. The test confirmed that, yup, he’s just a white guy (English & German descent), but it also turned up a related niece. A bunch of emails and phone calls later, and Tim had located his half-brother Doug.

Doug and his wife Theresa live in Wisconsin, and after a couple of years of coordinating we caught up with them and their family at their hunting cabin for the Fourth of July weekend.

Doug’s cabin is located in the Driftless hill country of Wisconsin. If I’ve got this right, it’s called The Driftless because the glaciers skipped this region, so the undulating hills and valleys remained instead of being flattened out like the prairie land in nearby Iowa.

The Driftless is beautiful farm country, primarily hay fields and crops with some dairy farms. We spent a couple of days riding around in UTVs through a big network of trails connecting to Doug’s property. ATVs/UTVs are also legal on the road up there, and we did an afternoon excursion with a string of us following along.

Doug’s cabin is outfitted with an RV parking spot, so we slid right in and settled down to enjoy a long weekend of barbecue, beer, and getting to know each other.

Theresa’s family lives all around the area, and we visited with aunts, uncles, and cousins plus their neighbors. Friendly folk!

One neighbor has a fabulous vintage motorcycle collection that we were allowed to drool over. Another neighbor has an active artisan spring on his property that Al Capone once used to make bootleg spirits during prohibition.

We felt right at home in this farm country. There’s a lot of similarities between The Driftless and the Bluegrass region in Kentucky where Tim grew up.

Our big night out was dinner at the Hillsboro Brewing Company. Great craft beer and walleye fish. And oh my those fried Wisconsin cheese curds!

Meeting a blood brother meant a great deal to Tim, and Doug’s family were warm and welcoming to us. I hope we can return the favor and show them around Kentucky some day!

 

12 comments

Tim Moore August 7, 2020 - 12:31 pm

FANTASTIC! I’m so glad to see that you guys got to meet up. Yep, they sure look like brothers.

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Donella July 22, 2020 - 8:28 pm

The similarities in those two are uncanny! Great story Richie and Tim.

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Karen Moore July 12, 2020 - 3:48 pm

Oh Richie this is just wonderful! Tim told my Tim about Doug and now you all have finally met. This is a great story. The biggest hugs EVER from us to you both!!

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Richie July 12, 2020 - 4:08 pm

Thanks, hon! It was pretty special getting the two brothers together.

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Joe and Debbie July 10, 2020 - 6:41 am

It was such serendipity to have the opportunity to meet you and share in Tim and Doug’s ‘reunion”. What a wonderful photo essay and blog! You are always welcome back to Hidden Acres and the Driftless, and hopefully we’ll see you again down the road. Cheers, Joe and Debbie, some of ‘the neighbors’!

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Richie July 10, 2020 - 9:12 am

Such a pleasure to meet you! We really enjoyed our visit to your farm and the splendid conversation. Hope to see you again!

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Jessica July 9, 2020 - 9:44 pm

I am so happy we were able to meet you. Your writing and photography is beautiful! We hope to keep in contact and see you both again soon! Thank you for making to long trip up here.

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Richie July 9, 2020 - 10:03 pm

Oh, Jess, we had a wonderful time!! So great to get Tim and Doug together. You have such a lovely family and we enjoyed every minute! Hope to see you again soon! Kentucky next?

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Jessica Schloss July 10, 2020 - 9:23 am

We hope to plan a time to come down with my dad and Theresa!

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Richie July 10, 2020 - 10:05 am

Yay! Can’t wait!

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Peggy A. Hoffman July 9, 2020 - 12:37 pm

Your photography is AWESOME and what a way to document this journey of first meeting of brothers!And finding an extended family in a home in Wisconsin, participating in a place of shared enjoyed activities. Your posts always leave me with much pondering!

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Richie July 9, 2020 - 1:47 pm

Whew – it was a long drive, but worth it!!

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